wha?

today we went for the 4hr long PPP talk..
i thought it would be horrible, seeing that i cant normally stay awake for a 2hr lecture, and here we are told to go for a 4hr talk?!?!
but then...things dont always turn out the way we expect, do they?
it turned out to be quite interesting...


she gave us tips on dealing with politics in the office..
1. Deal with everything professionally, 对事不对人
2. Dont treat colleagues as friends. Its alright to hang out and have fun with them, but dont share any personal information with them.

as she was going through the second point, it hit me..
that sounds awfully familar, doesnt it.
it seems like the way i am with the ppl around me!?
OK.
so for the past 18 years of my life, i havent taken anyone as a friend?!?!
ooooh, i see..
that explains everything!!

life isnt a mathematics questions,
there's no fix answer or method to it,
so screw all them self help books!!